Life is Best for those who want to Live it,
Life is Difficult for those who want to Analyze it,
Life is worst for those who want to Criticize it,
Our Attitude Defines Life...

Sunday, January 13, 2008

The man in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working man, but you should marry him with
these facts as well.

Here is a boy, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because he is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in his life just like you
or your brother haven't, as he was busy in studies and competing in a
system that gives no special concession to boys for their culinary
achievements

One, who has lived and loved his parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to accept all that, her home, people
who love her, to adopt his home, his family, his ways and even
your family .

One, who is somehow expected to be a masterf from day #1, while
you sleep oblivious to his predicament in his new circumstances,
environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning
and cook food at the end of the day, even if he is as tired as you are,
maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook,
a father, a husband, even if he doesn't want to; and is learning just like
you are as to what you want from him; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and
knows that you won't like it if he is too demanding, or if he
learns faster than you;

One, who has his own set of friends, and that includes girls and
even women at his workplace too, those, who he knows from school
days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to
avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your
inherent insecurities;

Yes, he can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't,
simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines,
just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing his level best and wants to make this most
important, relationship in his entire life a grand success, if you just help
him some and trust him;

One, who just wants one thing from you, - your unstinted support,
your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or
love, if you may call it.

But not many girls understand this......

Please appreciate "HIM"

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