Sunday, January 13, 2008
The man in your life...very well expressed...
 Tomorrow you may get a working  man, but you should marry him with 
 these facts as well.
 
 Here is a  boy, who is as much educated as you are;
 Who is earning almost as much as you  do;
 
 One, who has dreams and aspirations just as  you have because he  is as human as you are;
 
 One, who has never entered the kitchen in his  life just like you 
 or your brother haven't, as he was busy in studies and  competing in a 
 system that gives no special concession to boys for their  culinary 
 achievements
 
 One, who has lived and loved his parents &  brothers & sisters, almost as
 much as you do for 20-25 years of her  life;
 
 One, who has bravely agreed to accept all that, her home, people  
 who love her, to adopt his home, his family, his ways and even 
 your  family .
 
 One, who is somehow expected to be a masterf from day #1, while  
 you sleep oblivious to his predicament in his new circumstances,  
 environment and that kitchen
 
 One, who is expected to make the tea,  first thing in the morning 
 and cook food at the end of the day, even if  he is as tired as you are, 
 maybe more, and yet never ever expected to  complain; to be a servant, a cook, 
 a father, a husband, even if he  doesn't want to; and is learning just like 
 you are as to what you want  from him; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and 
 knows that you won't like it  if he is too demanding, or if he 
 learns faster than  you;
 
 One, who  has his own set of friends, and that includes girls and 
 even women at his  workplace too, those, who he knows from school 
 days and yet is willing to  put all that on the back-burners to 
 avoid your irrational jealousy,  unnecessary competition and your 
 inherent insecurities;
 
 Yes, he can  drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, 
 simply Because  you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
 
 One, who can be late  from work once in a while when deadlines, 
 just like yours, are to be  met;
 
 One, who is doing his level best and wants to make this most  
 important, relationship in his entire life a grand success, if you just  help 
 him some and trust him;
 
 One, who  just wants one thing from you, - your unstinted support, 
 your sensitivities  and most importantly - your understanding, or 
 love, if you may call  it.
 
 But not many girls understand this......
 
 Please appreciate  "HIM"




 
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